It’s so horrible how many stories like yours there are out there. It is an atrocity and completely unacceptable that rape has become a part of college education. I’m sending so much love from NY.
"Consensual sex" is just sex. To say that implies that there is such a thing as "non consensual sex", which there isn’t. That’s rape. That is what it needs to be called. There is only sex or rape. Do not teach people that rape is just another type of sex. They are two very separate events. You wouldn’t say "breathing swimming" and "non breathing swimming", you say swimming and drowning.